LET'S TALK
We are a community for the 21st-century man. A place where the warmth of a traditional Irish Pub meets the camaraderie of a global community of men.
The Whysmen Virtual Pub is a unique men’s community.
We gather in a series of free, regularly scheduled, confidential, 90-minute small-sharing circles that engage men from 12 time zones.
WHAT MATTHEW SAYS ABOUT THE PUB...
By joining the Pub, members gain access to a range of experiences that can only be offered through participation in a truly global men’s community.
Gathering virtually in the Pub, we offer everyone the opportunity to see beyond their neighbourhood and country, providing members with the chance to witness the lives of men everywhere and recognize that we share more in common than separates us.
With a virtual pint in hand and an open heart, we create a welcoming space for diverse perspectives and honest dialogue that fosters a true sense of belonging and understanding among us all.
Come as you are – your seat is here.
THE BENEFITS MEMBERS RECEIVE
CULTIVATING GENUINE CONNECTIONS
A safe, confidential space where trust and understanding flourish and a sense of belonging forms.
PROMOTING PERSONAL GROWTH
There is no dogma or philosophy. Take part in important and diverse cross-cultural conversations.
FOSTERING DEEP RELATIONSHIPS
Be heard. Share our common humanity. There is no fixing here; we give advice only when asked to do so.
Hello Men. I co-founded the Whysmen Virtual Pub almost five years ago, modelled after a traditional Irish Pub, which, if you have ever been in one, is a community within a community, the local hangout where showing up and being there is all that matters.
I spent 25 years on men's teams and groups meeting men from my own backyard. With the advent of ‘Zoom Culture,” I had a dream of reaching out to men worldwide to create safe spaces to engage men worldwide in conversations that matter. A place where men could show up to feel a sense of belonging and to simply be who they are.
Well, it has been a successful adventure. Belonging here will bring into the lives of men across continents, meeting in small, confidential sharing circles.
A core belief of mine is that everyone matters, and that as men, we have very few places where we can truly show up in trusted, safe spaces and feel a genuine sense of belonging.
The Pub is open to all men, everywhere. Why not drop in and see what we are all about? There is a chair here waiting for you.
