The Whysmen Virtual Pub is open to men who are willing to:
Show Up
Listen
Participate
We don’t have application fees or lots of rules.
We meet in small, confidential circles of not more than 12 men, from all over the world.
Just show up and see if this is for you.
All gatherings are drop-in and free – you are welcome to join any weekly meeting, if it works for you.
You are welcome to participate in several Pubs per week to get to know as many men in the community as possible.
Meeting range from 60 to 90 minutes, depending on the Pub format.
Once you become a member, you will automatically receive our Pub email.
What You Need to Know
CONFIDENTIALITY IS EXPECTED
Gatherings are confidential - you are permitted to share what happened to you in any meeting, but you are NOT permitted to share what anyone else related in any form, verbal, written, or digitally
You are encouraged to share, but you never need to speak; passing is always an option
Only give advice when it is asked for
RESPECT IS NON-NEGOTIABLE
Respect all the men gathered
Arrive on time, if possible 5 minutes early to ensure an on-time start
Always presume positive intent - always try your best to suspend any judgments
YOUR VOICE MATTERS
Speak for yourself. Use I statements when speaking
Only interrupt a man speaking for clarity
Attend at least one Event or Pub per month to remain an active member
If you have any questions, please send us a message, and we will be in touch via email to set up a one-on-one Zoom call.
