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THE WHYSMEN VIRTUAL PUB

CONNECTING MEN WORLDWIDE IN
CONVERSATIONS THAT MATTER

Every man has the right to belong, be themselves, find their place, and achieve growth.

The Whysmen Virtual Pub is open to men who are willing to show up, listen and participate. We don't have applications, fees or lots of rules. Just show up, and see if this is for you.

We host the Pub’s confidential men’s small-sharing Circles. And, we sponsor events facilitated by guest leaders who explore a variety of themes relevant to modern men. These event discussions explore beyond our regular Pub sessions, offering fresh perspectives and deeper engagement.

All our several weekly Pub gatherings are drop-in and free. You can join as many gatherings as you like. In fact, we encourage you to explore all corners of the Pub and meet as many of your fellow publicans as your time permits.

All gatherings are drop-in and free – you are welcome to join any weekly meeting, if it works for you.
We hope men decide to participate in several Pubs per week to get to know as many men in the community as possible.
Meeting lengths range from 60 to 90 minutes, depending on the Pub format.
All Pubs & Event information is updated weekly on our Pubs & Event Page.
Once you become a member, you will automatically receive our Pub email.

What You Need to Know

CONFIDENTIALITY IS EXPECTED

You are encouraged to share, but you never need to speak, pass is always an option
You respect all the men gathered
You try your best to suspend your judgments
When speaking, use I statements

RESPECT IS NON-NEGOTIABLE

You arrive on time, if possible 5 minutes early to ensure an on-time start
The gatherings are confidential - you are permitted to share what happened for you in any meeting but are NOT permitted to share what anyone else related in any form ;verbal, written., or digitally

YOUR VOICE MATTERS

You may only interrupt a man speaking for clarity
Only give advice when it is asked for
Members are required to attend at least one Event or Pub per month to remain an active member

If you have any questions, please send us a message and we will be in touch via email to setup a one-on-one zoom call.

SHOW UP
AS YOU ARE

No performance.
No fixing.
No advice.

Just a place where you can step out of "being on" and into being present.